Alyssa’s First Soccer Game

They look cute all lined up don’t they? While Coach Ethan introduced himself to all the kids, his own daughter was standing in an ant bed. She was doing really well listening and standing still. Then I start to notice her scratching her legs, jumping up and down. Finally I figured out what was going on. Quickly wrestled Megan out of her new sling, gave her to Oma, and began peeling soccer accessories off Alyssa. Luckily they didn’t get her too many times, but the incident was enough to keep her in my lap for the entire first game. We will try again next week. I did manage to get some cute photos of her before the attack of the ants.

Week 1

New video

Well, we are not quite at a week yet but we have had enough go on in the last 6 days to blog about week 1. I think we are finally getting settled in. It is amazing how much you forget about having a baby. Ethan and I would ask each other questions like “is she eating enough?” to “is her poop supposed to look like that?” Our general answer has been “I don’t remember.” But we think she is fine. She likes to sleep more than Alyssa did, I do remember that. Today while “trying” to take Megan and Alyssa’s picture, Megan was awake and wide-eyed for almost an hour. Most of the day she eats, then sleeps. And by the way, it was Alyssa not cooperating with picture-taking.

Overall I think Alyssa has done good. She seems to be a bit more whiney and is pushing the limits, but has still remained her sweet, silly self. Her and daddy went to the zoo and Chick-fil-A yesterday. It is easy when their desires are so simple.

That’s all for day 6.

We are home

After a good 3 days at the hospital, we were all ready to come home. We made it through the first night and lazy Sunday afternoon. Okay not really lazy. Do you know how many people want to come see her. Like she is a miracle. Who are we kidding? She IS our miracle.

So far Megan just likes to sleep. I have a hard time waking her to even eat. Everyone says enjoy it while it lasts. I guess you really forget how little and tired they are. Currently, she is in Oma’s lap and Alyssa is asleep. We are all doing well.

She’s here!

Megan Elizabeth Whaley was born at 11:58 pm, Sept 21st. She is 6 lbs 14 ounces and 20 inches long. Her lower lip quivers just like her sister’s when she cries. We rejoice with our Father in Heaven over our wonderful blessing.

Megan

Progressing, slowly…

Julie started the cervix medication last night and is responding slowly. This shouldn’t be a surprise as we are two weeks early. Everything is going fine but this will take longer than anticipated. I just have to keep Julie entertained for next several hours. I’ll let you know how it is going later today. – Ethan

Lungs are mature!

Julie and I received the results we wanted to hear. The lungs are mature and the doctor will start the induction tonight. We’ll keep you posted on things are progessing. Look for the next update tomorrow. – Ethan

Looking forward to tomorrow

It is Tuesday. I am enjoying my last day of peace and quiet. Ok, well, Alyssa is napping so it is quiet. I don’t know I would go as far to say as I was enjoying it, like with my feet up on the couch watching Notting Hill. Wrapping up some work for clients, making sure bills are paid, last minute cleaning and now just some folding of laundry left.

We have been covered in prayer lately, and tonight we will close out with our First Family. It is wonderful to have so many people understand what this week means to us. So many people who are thinking and praying about our daughter. I am sure that the family is a mess, but let me speak for Ethan and I and say that we are truly at peace. With a few concerned moments, literally moments, this pregnancy has been very peaceful despite the circumstances. I let my mind go sometimes and wonder what would happen if Megan is not born healhty, but it is not long before I am pulled back to a trust in God that really has sustained me. I think being able to trust God throughout the last 19 months with my grief has built this trust that I now completely rely on. There is nothing that I can do. There is nothing that even my wonderful doctor can do. Megan’s life is in God’s hands. And as much as I love my doctor, that truth is more wonderful than if her life was in the best medical hands.

Alyssa and I have been on count down since 6 weeks ago. When I would tell her it is only 5 weeks now, she would say, “no, six.” I don’t think she understood that going down was better. We are all looking forward to tomorrow and Thursday. We are looking forward to meeting Megan and seeing God’s love face to face.

Here is the schedule one more time: Ethan and I check in at 12:15 for the 1:00 amnio tomorrow. If the results come back that Megan’s lungs are ready, we will start cervadil Wed night, then pitocin Thursday. We are trying to make sure we have some sort of internet connection so we can update the blog and as soon as we can, we will update everyone. We sincerly thank you for your love, your concern and your prayers over this pregnancy. May God be glorified through the birth and life of our Megan Elizabeth.

We are celebrities.

That’s right we are famous. Well in the Republic of Georgia anyway, which is near Russia. At our 37 week visit today, we were selected to be videoed for a segment that UT is doing with some doctors from that country. They videoed my ultrasound, hopefully not actually getting much of me in the shot. It is a small chance, but it may be on the local news tonight, I guess if nothing else interesting happens today.

So here is Megan at 37 weeks. Can you see her sweet face?

Everything was good today. Megan passed all tests and we are set for the amnio next Wednesday, the 20th, at 1 pm. IF her lungs are mature they will check me in and begin drugs to prepare my body for the induction. If they are not, I will come back in a week for the induction. Right now I am not showing signs of progression and the Dr. would not normally induce a patient like myself. However, instead of letting me decide if I wanted to wait until 39 weeks, she made a much appreciated executive decision to go ahead as scheduled and induce next week. We are probably looking at a 2 day induction — cervadil one day, pitocin the next. Hopefully this body will kick into gear when prompted.