Some more pics of just laying around the house… I don’t have any others because we have not done anything in two weeks. Mom and I got out for our first outing today to Hobby Lobby. Um… we were gone less than an hour. Pathetic. It has been frigid cold lately and everyone in the house has some sickness ranging from reflux to early bronchitis. We are all now officially on antibiotics trying to get well before all my family gets here for T-day. Let me tell you, it is really taking the fun out of the early days with Audrey. I guess we are all just bonding together right now.
One week
I guess the most exciting thing, at least for Audrey, is that she got her paci this week. I like to hold off as long as possible, mainly because until they can keep it in their mouth, the paci is quite annoying for mommy. I have discovered that she really likes to suck on it during the day and I am trying not to use it at night. But while I was up last night from 11 pm – 2:30 am I was wishing she knew how to just hold it in herself. She picked that time to be awake instead any of the other 21 hours of that day. I sure hope she does not repeat that behavior tonight.
I think that my winter is going to be long and cold. The last few days it has been too cold for us to go anywhere and really too cold to let Megan play outside … ok, maybe just too cold for me to stand out there. I feel like I have been house-bound for too long and just need to run an errand to Hobby Lobby or go meet Daddy for lunch or something. But I feel that maybe we have gotten over the 1st week hump. No matter how many kids you have, the first week is always hard. Learning to cope without sleep, learning to manage other kids, learning to feed – it is always something. Audrey is finally over her jaudice and actually gained back up to her birth weight already. And I am already at my pre-pregnancy weight too…. hahaha!
New Things
Bath Time:
Audrey
Megan
Maybe all kids scream like this in their first bath, but these two look suspiciously similar. (Thanks for the reminder Ali.)
The Swing: It goes a little slower with each kid, and makes this crank noise when it starts up, but 7 years and 4 girls later I guess it still works.
Today Audrey is hanging out in the swing in the in-direct sunlight. She of course has a little bit of jaundice, I think all of mine have. We are waiting for the results of her third bilirubin test, but I think she is getting better. She has gained back up to 6 lb 14 oz already and the goal for newborns is birth weight (7 lbs) in 2 weeks. She is still very sleepy and unaware of the chaos going on around her. I am not sure how I am going to manage these three girls by myself, but for now I am very thankful that mom is here to help. There are not any pics of her yet, but she is working behind the scenes.
Alyssa has enjoyed coming home to Audrey and kissing her goodnight, but still isn’t that interested in her. Megan has gotten excited to see her a time or two, but for the most part just plays around her. I guess we are adjusting. Daddy and Megan went to the Jump Zone today for some one on one time. Alyssa loves school, but I think Megan is getting the shaft just a bit…poor middle child!
At Home
We brought Audrey home Tuesday night. It was not the coming home that you plan. We had wanted the girls to be with us and drive home as a family, but they said we could go after 24 hours and that ended up being about 8:45pm. Ethan and I both dislike the comforts of the hospital and with so much help waiting for us at home, we decided to just go. Big sisters were in bed when we got there, no one else got to see her cute outfit and since it was dark and cold, we didn’t even get pictures. Oh…poor 3rd child.
She did very good last night sleeping 4 hours at a time and was able to wake up to eating breakfast with Alyssa. Alyssa was so excited to see her this morning.
After Alyssa was on the bus, Megan came down the stairs and was so excited to see me waiting for her. She also got to eat breakfast with her baby sister.
And lastly, those who know us well, know that our children do not have hair. Well, Audrey wanted to make a statement as the third girl. Here is a pict of her hair and her neck roll 🙂 I hope it doesn’t all fall out!
More in the Photos
She’s here!
All Audrey’s friends and family are asking for more pictures. Here you go.
Audrey has done well so far tonight. She tolerated both sisters and has been sleeping for the last few hours. We are going to eat once more and then all try to get some sleep. Thanks for all prayers and concerns. We are thankful for a new baby girl
Audrey Lynn Whaley was born at 5:53 pm and weighed 7.0 lbs and 19in! More hair than the other ones!
I love cheeseburgers
Ethan and I just enjoyed our last meal for awhile.. well, mine anyway. As I recall, he doesn’t have a problem eating while I am in labor. Our nurse tonight has been great. She has a daughter a few days older than Megan and is due with her second daughter next week. She has been taking good care of us including bringing us cheeseburgers, fries and coke. Hey, when it is your last meal, you can have whatever you want!
As of 11 pm, I am having a few contractions. The plan is to do cervadil tonight and then start pitocin at 7 am. Maybe we will get a decent night sleep and then meet Audrey tomorrow. She has been very active and the nurse says she looks great! Ethan can post an update tomorrow.
Anticipation
I am there. I am at that breaking point where everything is getting to me. Is it the hormones, the timing, the anxiety? I think I was there for about 2 weeks waiting on Alyssa and with Megan we induced so early, I missed it. But here I am: excited, worried, anxious, hopeful, doubtful, joyful and scared. How can you have all of that at once? I had my last appointment today and I am scheduled to check in the hospital Sunday evening and they will begin the induction Monday morning. And trying to convey my fears and what will make me feel better to 5 different doctors has been annoying and frustrating. I have been on rotation at the doctor’s office since week 20 and I felt I had to re-tell my story each time. After some serious convincing, I got my “original” doctor to agree to the induction even though there are no real signs of labor in my future. I thought we were on the same page all along and her comments on not wanting to induce if I am not “ready” were enough to send me over the edge today. As I said, she gave in, but made it clear that I was accepting the risk of c-section if the pitocin didn’t work. I guess she doesn’t understand that a healthy baby via c-section is a big step up from no baby at all.
So we are 4 days and 4 nights away from Audrey (as Alyssa puts it). I have everything in the house ready and while that feels great and makes me smile just to walk past her little bed imagining her there, it also brings out emotions that apparently I have been pushing down. The more joy I try to let myself feel, the more pain I feel. The more “what ifs” creep in. Should I just put this all in God’s hands? Or can I make one more ultrasound and just check on her again? Whatever is done or will be done, is done, so what role can I play in this? I guess with Megan’s pregnancy I was so well cared for, that I believed without a doubt that she was perfect, she was healthy. This time, I feel I have gotten the shaft a bit from all these doctors that don’t really understand. I guess I felt you all deserved one more heart-felt post from me. One more spill your guts to all interested parties post. So there it is. I am hopeful for the beautiful baby that I dream of, but am truly scared of the reality that this world can hand down.
We will post news and/or photos as soon as we can. See you again on the other side.
Treatin’ with friends
When we were looking for houses, we really liked this neighborhood because of all the kids we saw running around. Well, they all come out Halloween if not the rest of the days. The girls dressed up and we headed down to one of the cul-de-sacs that Alyssa’s friends live on and spent most of the evening with them. They have food and desserts and then throw all their candy together in one big bucket for the other kids. They all walked down one of the streets together and we could just see Alyssa run in and out of driveways from a distance. She had a blast. Now my “angels” are sitting on the couch, full of sugar, winding down with Cars and Daddy. More
The new Alyssa
Man, things are changing before my eyes. You know they grow up fast, but I feel this has aged her years in just minutes. After an eye exam at school, we were prompted to get her eyes tested and discovered she is far-sighted. So here she is with her new glasses. She really likes them and insisted on wearing them to church tonight even though she doesn’t really need them except for at school. I am just glad she feels good about them. We practiced spraying and cleaning them, and discussed what we can and can’t do with glasses. This is a responsibilty that I don’t know she is ready for. Tomorrow is her first day of school with them. Say a little prayer that no punks make fun of my little girl.
Fall Break
I had never heard of Fall Break before moving here. Apparently, kids need a little time off after only 2 months of school, so Alyssa had Thursday and Fri off last week and no soccer game. Ethan thought it would be fun for us to take one last trip before Audrey comes so we went to Atlanta. It is about 4 hours from us and we enjoyed the Aquarium, Coca Cola Museum, the Zoo and Botanical Gardens. We also ate at The Varsity. The Downtown Atlanta location is on more than two acres and can accommodate 600 cars and over 800 people inside. On days when the Georgia Tech Yellowjackets are playing a home game, over 30,000 people visit The Varsity. It was worth the experience, but of course I felt so rushed and intimidated ordering that I had to get my hamburger fully loaded, so I didn’t quite enjoy it as much. Megan was a bit cranky after a full day and Alyssa was just climbing all over the window. However, Ethan quite enjoyed his “dirty” dog and made sure this experience was mentioned in the blog. It was a good “last” trip. Pics
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So, the other really cool thing about Atlanta was church. I am no expert on North Point, but it is a large church community in the area. The main campus has 2 auditoriums that can accommodate 5,000 worshipers at one time. About 5 years later, they opened an additional campus called Buckhead Church down the street from our hotel. The idea was “Atlanta does not need another church. What Atlanta does need is a safe environment where the unchurched can come and hear the life-changing truth that Jesus Christ cares for them and died for their sin.” Since Ethan and Ben work on church systems (video, audio, gear, lighting, etc…), he has been more interested in visiting different places. And there was a time in my life, when I just wasn’t interested in this. I like my church, I like my acapella music, I like my semi-conservative beliefs, I don’t want to go anywhere else – even to visit. I don’t know where that mindset came from, I will try not to blame my upbringing, but if you have not experienced God in any other place than your home church, you are missing out. I am amazed at how God can work. At how differently he can work in different areas, in different people. How church can adapt to bring others to know Christ and still be church. We have been to some rather large churches and not all of them move me. Like the one that served popcorn because the series was about God in the movies or something. And they literally watched long clips of Return to Neverland then discussed it. Great if that works for you, but that is not what I need to feel a connection with God. But this morning, I felt that conncection. Far away from home, even farther away from what I would consider a church I am comfortable with. It had nothing to do with watching others. It was about the setting, the words, the songs this morning. And for the first time in my 32 years, my arm (just one) left my side and raised to heaven in glory to God. I felt the tears roll down my face as I humbled myself before God and just let his power run through me. I just can’t describe it. I just want to encourage you that when you have the chance to go to church somewhere different, and I mean different, not the Church of Christ on the other corner, GO. Let God show you how he works. Experience Him in a different way.